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Dusten Brown Stops Litigation So Veronica Can Live 'Normal Childhood'


Dusten Brown released the following statement on Thursday, October 10:

Thank you all for coming today. It’s been two and a half weeks since our daughter Veronica left with Matt and Melanie Capobianco for South Carolina. It’s difficult to put into words how empty our home feels without her. To come home from work and not have her greet me, to come to the door and grab me no matter how dirty I am, or going into her room and seeing all of her toys, without her playing with them—is the worst pain I have ever felt.

Me, my wife, Veronica’s grandparents, her sister, cousins, aunts, uncles and extended family and friends are heartbroken without her, but I know we did everything in our power to keep Veronica home with her family.

During this four-year fight to raise my daughter, I had to make many difficult decisions—decisions no father should ever have to make. The most difficult decision of all was to let Veronica go with Matt and Melanie Capobianco last month. But it was no longer fair for Veronica to be in the middle of this battle. It was the love for my daughter that kept me going all this time. But it was also the love for my daughter that finally gave me the strength to accept things that are beyond my control.

The time has come for me to let Veronica live a normal childhood that she so desperately needs and deserves, and that means stopping the ongoing litigation here in Oklahoma. Veronica is only 4 years old, but her entire life has been lived in front of the media and the entire world, and I cannot bear for that to continue any longer. I love her too much to continue to have the spotlight on her. It is not fair for her to be in front of the media at all times. And her safety, happiness and well-being have always been my number one priority.

I want to thank everyone who has supported me in this fight to keep my daughter at home with me and her family. We never dreamed that so many people from around the world would support us in this effort to raise our daughter. We appreciate each and every one of you more than you know. Every card, letter and email has been precious, and we cannot thank you enough.

I know that the Capobiancos love Veronica very much and will provide her with a good home. It is my greatest hope we can work together on a solution that is best for Veronica—one that allows me to continue to be a part of my daughter’s life, and see and speak with her on a regular basis.

And to Veronica—one day you will read about this time in your life. Never, ever for one second doubt how much I love you, how hard I fought for you or how much you mean to me. My home will always be your home, and you are always welcome in it. I miss you more than words can express. You will always be my little girl, my princess, and I will love you until the day I die. I love you and hope to see you soon.



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Submitted by God on

As ye reap shall ye sow - you gave up your parental rights. You did not want her. Other people did. And now you want us to by sympathetic because you decided you DID want her.
Shame on what YOU did to your daughter.

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Submitted by frankbrown on

To understand the importance, of knowing where you as an adopted or displaced person come from, imagine lying awake at night, trying to remember your mama's voice and gradually your memory of her voice and face gradually fades away as you become acculturated to a family who look nothing like you and know nothing of your culture - except that you are a Native American. Poor little girl.

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Wanblee Ishta
Submitted by Wanblee Ishta on

I hope with all my heart that you get to be a major part of her live.
And I find it extremly brave that you let these people "win" just so your daughter can lead a calm, happy life.
I admire you for that :)

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Roberta Irving
Submitted by Roberta Irving on

I hope the Capobiancos will find it in their hearts to let you see and talk with your daughter. You are a very strong person and are right not to drag this on any longer for Veronica's sake. Thankyou for sharing this with the world Blessings to you and your family